Psalm 9:1 I will give thanks to the Lord with my whole heart; I will recount all of your wonderful deeds.
How are you doing today? How was your week? Did things go well for you as expected or better than you expected. Tell me what was the absolute best part of your week? What was the most exciting thing that took place for you this week? What blessing are you most thankful for? I hope and pray that you had a good week filled with love, joy and success. And even now I am thinking of you, wishing and praying that you are doing well and that you have an outstanding day. I am praying that your day will be filled with excellency, joy, love, and tremendous success.
Welcome to Friday
It took me a while to sort through it all, and the list of gratitude didn't flow like water, but after some time on the keyboard I realized that I have a lot to be thankful for. All in all, considering the highs and lows, it turned out to be an amazing week and kick started by the long holiday weekend. I am so thankful for:
- The rest and relaxation of a long weekend
- Enjoying time off on Monday and celebrating the life, legacy, and leadership of MLK
- Watching documentaries
- Discussing and sharing with the kids the importance of equality, justice, education and history
- Being reminded of trailblazers, how far we have come, and how far we have to go
- Success at work with critical issues and product goals
- My team resolving a critical server failure that was problematic for two weeks
- Getting our next product release ready for the market
- Getting additional help in my new role at work
- Getting a compliment on the positive attitude that I have in the midst of new responsibilities
- Spending time with the younger four girls over the weekend
- Having lunch
- Playing UNO and Monopoly deal
- Watching Ava light up when she won UNO - needless to say the rest of us weren't so happy!
- Safe trips for Cassarra and Gabbi
- Safe trips to breakfast with their grandma
- Safe travels to and from Philly with their Aunt Felicia and Uncle Craig
- The stories and memories they have made are amazing
- Hearing about the Philly trip and the fun they had
- Being able to attend a celebration of life for a church member and family friend
- Being reminded that one person can make a huge difference
- Seeing a diversity of people come together in support for each other
- Teaching moments with Ava who wanted to know about Jesus and the cross
- Answering the questions with Ava on the Bible App
- Showing her the story of both the cross and the empty tomb
- Smiling as she kept going back and forth between the pictures of cross, tomb, empty tomb, and Jesus with his disciples
- Surprising Trish and the girls with some new recipes (good recipes) for dinner
- I made my own version of Mac-n-Cheese from scratch and no notes
- I also made a new version of scalloped potatoes with fewer calories (less butter)
- Great report cards from the girls
- Laughing with Ava and Emma who tried every excuse to stay up late on Wednesday night
- Trish treating me to coffee and lunch over the weekend when we weren't able to go out together
I have had a really good week. It started out with a wonderful weekend of joy and opportunity, friendship and celebration. There were definitely some moments this week that were tough, like trying to work through several critical system failures at work. The problems were magnified by having the executive staff in the office this week. It was also tough to get started with potty training Emma. The week also featured some really funny and spectacular moments, more than I can count. For example, from the "I think my parents are rich file," Cassarra and Gabbi were in the laundry room with Trish early this week. As they stood around talking Cassarra noticed the breaker box and before opening it Gabbi asked Trish if this was our "safe." When Trish asked why she thought we had a safe, they both commented that they just thought we had a safe to keep all our money - or something like that. Trish asked if they thought we were that rich. All night we kept making jokes about our secret stash of cash, and our safe. Another set of great moments included finally fixing on of the IT failures this week at work, completing a meeting with the COO and getting a good start on the new goals. I also had a friend share the good news of his promotion, and my former manager was also promoted at a local company in the area. We had a good extended weekend and watched some wonderful documentaries and shows on MLK day.
The older girls kicked off the long weekend by going to brunch with their grandma, and then going with their Aunt Felicia to Philadelphia. They were so excited about both events. It is odd to see teenagers getting up early without grumbling and complaining, especially on their "day off" from school. They were all jacked up to get their big weekend underway. They definitely enjoyed all of it. I couldn't stop hearing about the time at breakfast, the jokes with their grandma and their cousins. After they got back the inside jokes and experiences from their trip filled the house for hours. They talked about all of the driving, food, breaks and then finally the actual game. They spent more time talking about Matthew's room than they spent talking about the actual game. They really loved the experience and game back sporting their bookstore treasures.
Meanwhile, Sydney and Paige enjoyed not having the big sisters, and extra"bosses" around. Paige took care of being the resident night owl for the weekend. Sydney took over the roll of big sister. I know Sydney enjoyed being the oldest for a few days and Paige enjoyed having all of the electronics to herself and the remote control. They also got a chance to have lunch with dad and few interruptions. We had Chick-fil-A. I probably enjoyed it more than they did. I know they enjoyed having more of their mom's attention as well. After about midday on Sunday though, Sydney was ready for the older sisters to come back. She said, she was actually getting a bit tired of the "big sister" role and having to do so much. I'm not really sure what she was doing so. I don't recall asking her to do anything more than clear the table and put the dishes up, but maybe she was talking about the notion of being the oldest.
Ava and Emma missed the girls on Friday night and asked about them occasionally, but for the most part the extra freedom, two less eyes watching, and more time with mom was appreciated by them. I know Ava definitely enjoyed the notion of two fewer eyes watching and correcting her. We started potty training Emma this weekend and that really meant fewer eyes on Ava. I learned this weekend and during the week that potty training is no joke. I'm sure I knew that already, but it didn't get any easier since we last did this initial training with Ava. Thankfully we only had a few minor accidents and surprises. Most of which came when you let your guard down for that one extra minute. Honestly, so far it is going pretty well and Emma seems to be getting better at it. We have a ways to go, but it is coming along.
Trish is doing well. She has been working on the potty training, some projects around the house, and trying to get some things done for the church. She is truly amazing. As I worked with Emma by myself on Sunday morning I was reminded that she is spectacular. I was reminded that if it was all up to me, the girls would still be in diapers. had these grand plans for how I was going to get the potty training started, work on my book, finish reading a training manual, and fix dinner and lunch. The truth is I nearly called her to come home from church, burnt my first attempt at lunch, overcooked the first batch of macaroni noodles, paired down the dinner plans, managed only two pages an hour on the book, and took about two hours to finally get dinner in the oven. When Trish got home things seemed to go smoother instantly. And now Emma is doing 10 times better with the training than she was under my watch on Sunday. I'm telling you, they'd still be in diapers if I had to do it all by myself. She has a knack, passion and brilliance for working with all of the girls. They are definitely blessed to have her and so am I. Although we didn't have a babysitter for our date night, we managed a mini-date at home. We had a small picnic and an at home coffee break on Sunday afternoon and Wednesday morning.
All the girls did really well on report cards. Paige and Sydney have all A's. Gabbi and Cassarra have A's and B's. I am really proud of their efforts during this nine weeks. Gabbi and Cassarra did a lot of good things, put in a lot of study time, and spent time in tutoring. I was so glad to see their hard work pay off for them. Even Paige saw an improvement in her grades due to an increased effort in school. I also think her extra reading has helped. She is working on reading 30 books this month, mostly children's books to Ava and Emma.
Well, I hope you had a great week. I hope you enjoy your weekend and that you get to spend your weekend surrounded by friends, family and those you love. Thanks again for being a wonderful part of my life and journey. I pray that you will surely and fully enjoy your day and again... Welcome to Friday!
May the LORD GOD, the marvelous and majestic One,
clothed in dominion, full of might, power and glory - be with you.
The Almighty, enthroned forever and ever,
bless you with his steadfast love and abundant grace.
May God be your stronghold in your time of need,
your refuge when you need rest and the One
you trust and fall in love with day after day!
Welcome to Friday
With love (& in triumph),
Cassius



