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Titled after my first book of poetry, this blog follows with a vast array of stories of hope, joy, grace, sorrow, success, thoughts and prayers. I hope to remind myself that it is okay to not know how all the notes make up the song, and to inspire others that sometimes the seemingly random is not random at all because the Truth is, we aren’t writing the score— He is. And because He is, we can just play the notes and trust that the song will be Victory
Friday, October 24, 2014
The Early Bird - Part I
Welcome to Friday - 10.24.14
May the Everlasting arms of the gracious God,
reach out and hold you close, love on you,
and bring you hope, joy and peace.
With love (& in triumph),
Cassius
Welcome to Friday! - 10.17.14
- Date night at the SC State Fair
- Eating an elephant ear and turkey leg
- Enjoying the sights and sounds of the fair with Trish
- Exploring the exhibits, especially the paintings and sand sculpture without little people complaining that it was boring
- Getting to chat (and hear stories) with my brother Vincent on the job site in Columbia
- Cleaning up at church
- Cleaning up at home, especially getting a good start on clearing my accumulation of clutter in the office
- Sunday rest and naps and another date with Trish
- Laughing with Paige, Sydney and Emma at Walmart.
- Paige couldn't push Emma in the stroller without nearly running into something or someone
- Dinner together as a family on Wednesday night
- Completing the current software release at work
- Progress in resolving an issue with the high school
- Bible study with my friend Yuhui; we finally got our schedules synced after nearly a month
Prayer
Dear Lord, help us to be gracious, kind, and considerate not only in the church but also in our community. May the world who watches [us] see transformed people and believe in Your transforming power.
[Teach us to remember that our] witness is only as strong as [our] character.
Poh Fang Chia, Our Daily Bread (October 24, 2014)
Friday, October 10, 2014
Welcome to Friday - 10/10/14
the name of the God of Jacob defend you;
Psalm 20:1

I woke up and had the blessing of seeing the moon and the morning clouds beautifully arrayed in simply stunning form and fashion. The moon was out very bright and the contrast in the clouds and shadows was brilliant and breathtaking. We all know how breathtaking the sunset can be, this morning was on the same level. The pictures I took captured only a fraction of the amazing views and images on God's tapestry. - A beautiful family that knows how to laugh, live, pray, and forgive
- A fantastic visit over the weekend with my mother-in-law
- Enjoyable and productive worship and workshop service at the Black Church Summit
- Putting together a good slide deck to present to pastors, missionaries, and elders of many churches
- Delivering a great talk on Manna Station a ministry that feeds the homeless and hungry
- Laughing at the girls as they came home soaking wet from the football game
- Cassarra going to homecoming and arriving home safely. She looked so beautiful in her homecoming dress.
- Finishing up our software release project at work
- Receiving acknowledgement for my quick thinking and problem escalation and resolution at work
- Spending time with Trish on date night
- Attending parent teacher conferences at school
- The school is improving by leaps and bounds
- Learning that the girls are excelling and thriving in the new curriculum
- Late nights with Ava and Emma
- Watching Monday night football with Ava who "couldn't sleep."
- Catching a late night snack with Ava who was "so hungry."
- Watching Emma push a chair from the table over to the counter to search for my M&M's
- Thursday night dinner and going out for soft serve ice cream
With love (& in triumph),
Cassius
Friday, October 3, 2014
Scars
And what did it cost God to become our Father? His only-begotten Son. The infinite delight of his infinite heart. Betrayed, beaten, scourged, mocked, spit on, nailed, stripped, and forsaken. How much our Father loves us!
With love (& in triumph),
Cassius
Purchase price paid... title deed held
Ava, my fifth daughter, is at the age where young kids have a tendency to question everything. And one of her favorite questions, no matter what the request is "Why?"1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (NIV)
Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.
1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (The Voice)
Don't you know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who comes from God and dwells inside of you? You do not own yourself. You have been purchased at a great price, so use your body to bring glory to God!
When you ask her to pick up the toys, she responds, "Why?" If you tell her to sit down while eating, she retorts, "Why?" If you ask her to pass you the remote, go call her sister for dinner, bring you a diaper for her sister Emma, spit out that nasty rubber band she is chewing on, it is almost automatic that she will ask you, "Why?" Ava, look at the stars, I say. She answers, "Why are the stars up there?" When walking outside she wants to know why are there mosquitoes (I don't know why), why are there dragon flies, birds, and frogs. And even if she hears a sound she will ask "Why? Why did that bird make that sound?"
For Ava why is a gateway to knowledge, reason, understanding and purpose. Why should she clean her room leads her to understanding the purpose and goal of cleaning. Not cleaning her room also helps her understand the concept of disobedience and consequences.
He clearly sets out to answer why someone should honor their bodies, worship God through sanctity and purity, and protect their character and virtue. "Why?" his audience asks, and he replies, that we are His. God has redeemed us from our life of sin for His glory. We do it because we have been bought with a great price. The price paid is well above rubies, diamonds, and all the gold one can find. The price that was paid was so great a price that it cost His only Son His life. Why? Glorify God in your bodies and live as a temple of the Holy Spirit because you have been bought with the precious blood of Christ. And what does God intend for this purchase? He intends to make it whole, holy, righteous and His dwelling place.
Welcome to Friday - 10.03.14
Welcome to Friday! I just wanted to check in again to say Welcome to another Friday, and another weekend. My sincere hope is that you have had a really amazing week and that you have been very successful in the things that you have set out to accomplish. How are you doing? How do you feel today and what has been going on in your areas of concern and influence. How did you spend your week, and what was the best part of the week? Was your week a blur of activity or did you have a nice week of reflection and contemplation? I hope that you are doing well, and again I hope that you had a great week.- Enjoying the church homecoming cookout, until the yellow jackets took over
- Enjoying a paddle boat ride with Ava on the lake
- Spending time with friends and family
- Good barbecue chicken and
- Spending time cooking out for friends and neighbors on Sunday
- Laughed about old college times with a friend from college. It was very interesting to hear how others saw you in college.
- Plus, great hotdogs hot off the grill
- Learning that Emma is serious about ice cream
- Emma ate my ice cream pop while I was looking away and talking to Trish
- Enjoying breakfast Friday morning with the girls
- Ava's last dental check up for the tooth she hurt and slightly cracked months ago
- The dentist adjusting some of the charges that the insurance company will no longer cover
- Health Insurance!
- Trish's taco soup was simply fantastic
- Seeing Sydney's pictures as a literacy coach at DFES
- Hearing that Gabbi once tutored a young boy who is now a part of the Advanced Gifted and Talented Program
- Hearing great updates from friends battling and surviving breast cancer
- Having an amazing Homecoming speaker at church and great worship service
- A great start to our next project at work
- A successful initial planning meeting for my team at work
filled with unpredictable challenges,
unseen perils and tremendous hurt.
and we dwell confidently in Your power.
comfort, King, and everlasting refuge.
and speak life into our every situation and circumstance.
let them ever shout for joy, because You defend them;
let those also who love Your name be joyful in You (Psalm 5:11),"
"O magnify the LORD with me,
let us exalt His name together (Psalm 34:3)."
Encourage yourself
- to cheer and lift one's spirits
- to give support and advice to
- to make (someone) more determined, hopeful
- to instill life and energy.
- Faithful
- Holy
- Compassionate
- Eternal
- Almighty
- Mighty in battle
- Strong (like a tower, and refuge)
- Ever present helper
- Deliverer and provider
- Abraham whom he promised and delivered land, prosperity, victory over kings, a son in his old age, and a son of promise
- Jacob who returned to his homeland, was delivered from Esau and Laban, and became a mighty nation
- Moses whom he empowered to victory over Pharaoh and led a nation through the wilderness
- Joshua who conquered Jericho, led victoriously into the promised land
- Job whom God strengthened and blessed his former years more than his previous
- Remember God's track record in ages past, and in your own past
- Trust that He is hear. The Lord is an ever present help (Psalm 46:1)
- Rely on His power
- Remember that God loves you so much that He came near, lived, died and rose for you
With love (& in triumph),
Cassius
Good, but it has absolutely no power!
Good deeds abound, and good gifts are often given. Random acts of kindness are great ways to brighten someones day, and can be observed all over the world. As the authors of the 100 Most Important Bible Verses states:
Good works are evidence of faith, evidence of transformation, and evidence of a changed life. Good works bring honor to God, blessings to others, and joy to the one who performs them. But they have no power to open the doors to heaven.*When you do good deeds you are blessing and bring glory to God. You also bring blessings and joy to the receivers of your good deeds.
Your good deeds bring glory to God, and bring God joy as he sees your good works wrought through love. I imagine God smiles when the selflessness of a Army private softens the heart of a cold commander who finally realizes that God loves him. Or when the world finds hope because a believer reached out to the hurting with love. Good deeds remind a fallen world of the power of God's love, His extravagant grace and His desire to help, comfort, bless, favor, restore, reconcile, grant peace, and bring joy to His children.
Not only do they bring joy to God, but they bring joy to others. Just imagine the joy that a cup of milk and a cookie, along with a teddy bear will bring to someone. We might think of them as insignificant until you discover that they were just given to a three year old who has just watched his home and all the bears he owned go up in smoke. To that toddler the deeds of a group of moms, firefighters and First Response Units is life changing. It is good winning against evilGood deeds bring us joy as well as the giver. We smile when we look at milk mustaches made on dark nights when normal has gone up in the bright flames of an unexpected home fire.

Good deeds cheer our soul and refresh our spirits. When someone shows us love we feel a bit better, like the world is brighter for just that moment. It grants hope and joy.
Simply put, good deeds have tremendous power. They have the power to bring joy to the receiver, a smile to a child, comfort to a grieving widow, help to a struggling parent, hope to a person in despair, fellowship to the lonely, and so forth.
Good deeds, they do have power, but powerful as they are they have "no power to open the doors of heaven." No matter how grand, impressive, elaborate, or special they have no power whatsoever "to open the doors of heaven." They have power to glorify God, point to Him, and bless others, but they cannot, ever force Him to open the doors of heaven.
Our best deeds, our good deeds, even or most wonderful and amazing deeds are powerless to open heaven's doors. Ten thousand can't! Ten million won't! Hit the trillions and beyond and they'd still be unable to do it.
Don't get me wrong. Doing good is essential, and good deeds are great. We are all called to do great and wonderful deeds for others, and in the name of Christ. We must act justly, defend the orphan, look after the widow, help the abused, take care of the poor, and serve one another. There is no escaping the commands to love one another, and no escaping the truth that love is an action verb.. But no matter how many good things you do, they can't open up heaven's doors. Why?

The doors of heaven are only opened by the free gift of grace found in the life, death, resurrection and salvation that is given through Jesus Christ. That's it. By grace and grace alone. Good deeds have no power at heaven's doors.
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Welcome to Friday! - 8.29.14
- My team at work helping create the software to close a great business deal initially worth $25k, and helping resolve a customer issue that has taken nine months to diagnose and repair.
- Fixing the lights in the foyer and on the Microware
- As Trish can attest I am not the most handy of handymen
- The first time I replaced the microwave light bulb, we had to replace the microwave too
- Hearing Cassarra and Gabbi work together to plan for Cassarra's 17th birthday
- Hearing Cassarra plan for a small group of friends at Hi-wire (indoor trampoline park)
- Hearing Gabbi plan for a reasonable choice for food after the party
- Sydney and Paige having a good week at school
- Sydney did exceptionally well on her testing this week
- Paige is adjusting to the 3rd grade and keeping up with homework
- Spending time with Ava and Emma during lunch on Wednesday
- Laughing with Emma and Ava as they played hide and seek
- Watching Ava try to keep the much "bigger" Emma away from the iPad
- Laughing as Emma kept trying to close Ava in the closet when I sent Ava to get me a diaper for Emma
- A good appointment for Gabbi at the dermatologist
- Trish's continued progress with her shoulder
- Family dinner with my grandfather from Alabama as the special guest
- Spending time with family at dinner last night; I made hotdogs and fries and baked Parmesan encrusted Tilapia
- Hearing the girls on the choir on Sunday
- Gabbi sing at church and having her nail the songs she was singing
- Hearing Sydney sing her song and doing so with joy
- Paige helping make breakfast
- Walking with Ava in the cool of the morning
- Talking with Trish and planning for a weekend of painting and then relaxing
- Having fun with friends during lunch, even in defeat
